Wednesday, November 7, 2012

"Sex Matters" At Least in English

It's official -- women speak better English than men. EF's English Proficiency Index's (EF EPI) recent survey of 1.7 million adults from 54 countries has concluded that when it comes to adopting the world's lingua franca, females are outperforming males. (Full disclosure --- I am both female and work at EF Education First, the international education company which publishes the index).

Why do women perform better than men in English language?

Worldwide, women's English proficiency outpaces men's by a measurable margin (see chart). There are a myriad of possible reasons for this, the more convincing ones linked to educational trends as reported by UNESCO: women now outnumber men in worldwide university enrollments and graduation rates. In many countries, female students tend to be over-represented in the humanities. As Forbes reports, in U.S. higher education, women make up 56 percent of the student population -- the highest percentage on record in thiscountry.

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The gender gap in English is the widest in the Middle East. Women in the Middle East and North Africa score more than five points above men. In this region, where gender equality lags behind worldwide standards, there is a certain justice in knowing that women are outperforming men. The world's largest women-only university, Princess Nora University, opened in Saudi Arabia to great fanfare last May and is a promising start to that region's recognizing the potential of their female population.

Women's strong performance in English isn't merely a triumph for women's rights. English, as the key to global communication and international business, can help raise the competitiveness of industries, countries and entire regions.
All is not lost for man-kind
Out of the 54 countries included in the global English rankings, there are a few outliers, like Sweden, Chile, Portugal, and Switzerland where men are seen scoring slightly better in English than females. The EF EPI report this year also shows the ranking between 54 countries, the Nordics topping the list and Libya finishing in last place.

Time to make sexuality education part of Vietnamese school curriculum

A 9-year project ensuring young people`s rights to sexual and reproductive health in rural areas of Vietnam has come to an end. The two driving forces behind the project are The Danish Family Planning Association (DFPA) and Center for Gender, Family and Environment in Development (CGFED). Steps to mainstreaming sexuality education in Vietnam are now being taken.
 
On September 20 CGFED and DFPA arranged a conference in Hanoi to highlight the results of the project and to advocate for an institutionalization of sexuality education in Vietnam. The project has shown its strength through the outreach and mobilization of community and local government support for sexuality education in the areas Nam Dinh, Bac Giang, Phu Yen and Ho Chi Minh City.

Aiming at enabling continued cooperation between DFPA and CGFED in a partnership to promote sexuality education in Vietnam, the conference was attended by more than 90 people, including the secretary general of DFPA, Bjarne B. Christensen, Executive Director of CGFED, Ms. Ngoc and representatives from the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Health.

 

Mr Christensen explained that from Danish experience, good quality sexuality education is based on a legal framework, qualified human resources and good education materials.

According to Ms. Nguyen Thi Hoang Yen from Vietnam Institute of Educational Sciences, the Ministry of Education and Training, the time is right to make sexuality education part of the school curriculum.

Facts and feelings: Sexuality education for middle schoolers

Middle school students "are at a unique point, going through puberty, learning about relationships and how to interact with someone they are attracted to," said Kirsten deFur, one of the facilitators of a sexuality education program at the Unitarian Church.
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  STATEN ISLAND, N.Y. -- Whatever age it happens, the way we learn about sex is usually memorable, The whole picture is often pieced together from various and sundry sources — the “the talk” with mom or dad, stories of friends, health class and a host of print and electronic media. The result can be a confusing mix of fact and misinformation. 

At the Unitarian Church of Staten Island, parents decided to provide middle school students with a more complete approach to their sexuality with a broad base of information. While sex education is part of the intermediate school curriculum, parents have found the emphasis to be on preventing STDs and AIDs and not on the range of physical and emotional changes that come with puberty.

“We don’t want a fear-based sexuality education program. We want one where sexuality is seen as a positive thing. If we give this age group the right information, they can make responsible decisions,” said Kate Howard, religious exploration coordinator.

The course is part of the the Unitarian Universalist’s program for sexuality education known as OWL — Our Whole Lives.
 
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The curriculum is secular and free of any religious doctrine. It will be facilitated by Rona Solomon, president of the Unitarian Church of Staten Island and sexuality educator Kirsten deFur.
“These students are at a unique point, going through puberty, learning about relationships and how to interact with someone they are attracted to,” said Ms. deFur who has a master of public health in sexuality and health from Columbia University.
“It’s important for them to think about relationships and sexuality and how people get along before they enter into a serious relationship,” she added.
“More than the birds and the bees,” says Ms. deFur, the course emphasizes relationship skills and healthy living, by including a range of areas, including body awareness, human development, friendship, dating, gender issues and social responsibility.

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Ms. Solomon has an extensive background in human and reproductive rights that includes founding executive director of the Staten Island Aids Task Force and Development Director of Community Family Planning Council.

Students will have the opportunity to read, discuss and ask questions.

“It’s important to have a safe base to explore and talk about sexuality,” said Ms. deFur. The curriculum is meant to support a parent’s role as the primary educators of their children.

A parent orientation will be held Sunday, Nov. 11 from 12:45 to 2:15 p.m. Parents can register their children on that day for the 11 week course that begins Jan. 6. The fee for the course is $150. Financial assistance may be available. For more information, contact Ms. Howard at 718-447-2204 or recoordinator@uucsi.org.

Teens taking online sex ed course have reduced sexually transmitted infections, improved condom use

Marco Gonzalez-Navarro
Marco Gonzalez-Navarro is an assistant professor at the University of Toronto who was part of research team that found an online sexual education course improved the sexual behaviours and attitudes of Comlombian ninth graders.
 If learning about the birds and the bees from your antiquated teacher in a room full of giggling adolescents seemed like torture, researchers have found a more effective solution.

A team from the University of Toronto, University of Ottawa, Yale University and including researchers in South America studied the attitudes and behaviour of ninth graders in Colombia who took an online sexual education course. Those who were sexually active were found to have fewer sexually transmitted infections, increased condom use and a greater awareness of sexually abusive situations.

“We found very strong and significant effects,” said Marco Gonzalez-Navarro, an assistant professor at the University of Toronto. “Using these tools to provide a more complex sexual health education seemed to work at least in this context.”

The study, published as a working paper, tracked 138 ninth graders from 69 public schools in 21 Colombian cities who took a semester-long course provided by Profamilia — an arm of Planned Parenthood International — at a cost of $14 per student.

Students spent an hour and a half each day in class on the computer, where they worked through interactive modules and quizzes on topics such as sexual rights, pregnancy, contraceptives and infections.

An important part of the course was access to a remote Profamilia tutor, with whom students could communicate privately to ask questions and get feedback.

“Using the Internet as a way of educating kids hasn’t always shown to be very effective,” Gonzalez-Navarro said, but in the case where discussing sexual activity openly can be awkward for teenagers, working online is an advantage.

“This is one of those topics in which privacy was a big thing,” he said.

Researchers conducted a survey of baseline attitudes before the course started, one week after the course had finished and six months later. Students were also given vouchers for condoms six months after the course,

The results of the study showed a 10-per-cent increase in condom use among students who had taken the course and a reduction in self-reported infections for those students who were sexually active when the course started.

Gonzalez-Navarro said there was a significant, positive impact on sexual behaviour among friend groups who had taken the course.

“That was pretty encouraging,” he said. “You get much more effects if you have groups of kids knowing the same things.”

While the number of unwanted pregnancies and the rate of sexually transmitted infections among teens are lower in North America than Colombia, with more access to sexual education resources, Gonzalez-Navarro said a course like this could still be implemented here.

“Indicators such as teenage pregnancy are much better in Canada than in Columbia,” he said. “But there’s still room for improvement.”

Texas public school districts alter sex education programs

Abstinence Education Jennifer Waters, education director for 180 degrees program, teaches an abstinence class at Arbor Creek Middle School, in Carrollton, Texas, March 27, 2007. Texas law requires sex education courses be abstinence-based.
Abstinence Education
This past year, several Texas school districts have implemented a new abstinence-plus program developed by the University of Texas Prevention Research Center (UTPRC) at Houston. The program is called “It’s Your Game … Keep It Real,” or IYG. IYG is both a classroom- and computer-based program specifically designed for middle school kids.

In 1995, then Gov. George W. Bush signed a bill that required all Texas schools to teach abstinence only curricula. At the time, this bill made Texas the third state to require abstinence only education.

The IYG program emphasizes and encourages abstinence; however, it also promotes the theory that the more teens know about sex, the longer they wait to have sex. IYG works toward “developing, implementing and disseminating fact-based human sexuality education in middle schools,” according to IYG’s mission and purpose statement.

The program is designed to “teach teens about their bodies, personal relationships, personal rules and sex while giving them the skills to grow into safe, responsible young adults,” according to the IYG’s website. IYG is separated into two programs: “It’s Your Game: Risk Reduction” and “It’s Your Game: Risk Avoidance.”

The former is a comprehensive program “grounded in theory” while the other “emphasizes the benefits of abstinence-until-marriage, individual and social benefits of marriage and incorporates elements of character development and future orientation,” according to IYG’s website.

Some people are enthusiastic about the possible effects of the program.

Senior Susan Hublein is a campus coordinator for GENAustin. As a campus coordinator, Hublein teaches middle school girls about puberty, positive body image and cultivating healthy relationships. GENAustin is geared specifically to elementary, middle and high school girls.

“One of the most shocking things [is that] in one of the schools I had to explain the difference between tampons and condoms,” Hublein said. “The fact that I had to explain the difference is frightening.”

As of now, districts in Austin, Corpus Christi, San Antonio, Plano and Houston as well as nine school districts and the KIPP charter school system in Harris County have adopted the curriculum, including Cypress-Fairbanks Independent School District.

Cy-Fair ISD began the curriculum at the end of October. Some parents have raised complaints about the explicit nature of IYG. On Facebook, there is a group called “Cy-Fair Parents Against Safer Sex-Ed for 7th & 8th Graders.” The parents feel IYG teaches children how to have safer sex, according to the page.

The program has an opt-out clause that allows parents to choose whether they want their child in the program. Texas requires that notice of sex education be given to parents, according to Guttmacher Institute.
Some parents do not agree with the opposition to the program.

“Me as a parent, I don’t mind this class as long as consent [from parents] is provided. This conversation should start early,” said Yvonne Johnson, mother of a sophomore at Cypress-Fairbanks High School. “I wish my daughter could have been in this program.”

The Houston Chronicle reported that the school district may drop seventh graders from the program.

Long Division and STIs


Typically, proper condom use isn’t discussed after a history lesson, and—in most high schools—you won’t see teachers following up a math quiz with a brief discussion on sexuality.

This could be an ideal situation—sex being talked about with such ease that it wouldn’t be out of place to discuss pregnancy options after having a lesson with a teacher you’ve known since middle school.

If that was the case, the issue at hand would be much less important. Maybe then, we wouldn’t be reporting statistics like Quebec’s 159 per cent increase in chlamydia cases over the past 13 years.

That’s not what’s happening, however.

Since the 2005 education reform put in place by Jean Charest’s Liberal government, curriculum changes have pushed sexual education from something discussed in health class to something that can easily be eliminated by teachers who don’t include it in their lesson plan—whether that’s because they’re receiving hardly any instruction on how to teach it, because they don’t feel the need to or simply because there isn’t the time.

“The idea is that every teacher from math to science should integrate sex ed into their classes,” said Juniper Belshaw. “What happens is that teachers are often not trained and might not feel comfortable talking about sex.”

Belshaw is the fundraising and development coordinator at Head and Hands, an NDG-based not-for-profit group that aims to promote the physical and mental wellbeing of youth.

Youth Teaching Youth
Head and Hands started their Sense Project in order to prevent sex education from slipping through the cracks of the often-vague high school curriculum since the education reform.

A peer-based sex ed program geared towards informing youth to make empowering decisions about sexual health, they target 14- to 17-year-olds—not only in school, but in group homes and community centres as well.

“I think back to my sex ed growing up in BC, which sort of felt similar to [the current Quebec system], where in biology class our teacher called blowjobs something like, ‘kissy-wissies,’” said Belshaw.

“Some teachers […] feel comfortable talking about it—but the vast majority don’t. So that’s where we get this gap, where students aren’t getting sex ed, or they’re not getting comprehensive sex ed or they aren’t getting sex ed at all.”
It’s that exact variability that makes sex educators, health practitioners and parents nervous.
The reality is that it’s entirely possible youth are receiving proper teaching on things like contraceptives, consent and sexually transmitted infections, but it’s still likely that they aren’t. When considering the states, it’s an all too uncertain of a risk to take.
“It’s a real public health issue,” said Belshaw. “Some youth are growing up thinking that there’s a cure for AIDS and when youth don’t know how to properly use a condom, those are issues. It’s really important to empower youth when they’re young to make informed decisions.”

Whose decision it is to make sure this happens is a sort of grey area, especially through the current system where no regulation exists to say who should teach what, or when.

“We use harm-reduction at Head and Hands, which is the idea that you meet people where they’re at,” said Belshaw, explaining that reducing harmful consequences related with risky behaviour is their priority, rather than trying to stop any and all behaviours that could lead to harm.

“I kind of think about sex ed in Quebec in the same way, I think that it’s better if kids get some education. I think if the teacher’s willing to do that then that’s rad, and if it’s another community organization that does it, that’s also rad,” she said.

“The Liberal government was talking about bringing sex ed back in a more real way and we would love to have a say in that process if the government was to decide to make sex ed a priority again—which we think it should.”

Teachers Teaching Teachers
One of the major difficulties since the reform—other than making sure teachers are, in fact, incorporating sex ed into the curriculum—has been making sure that teachers are qualified and comfortable doing so.

While external organizations, like the Sense Project, can come into schools to teach, it’s easier to reach more classrooms if teachers are following what the reform called for.

Formulating a sex ed curriculum that’s able to be incorporated into every class from biology to religion isn’t simple. The Teachers’ Toolkit, made by AIDS Community Care Montreal, helps teachers to do just that.

By having a database of comprehensive lesson plans, the toolkit offers teachers a way to educate themselves, and in turn become resources in sexual education for their students.

“It was actually quite difficult to picture what sexual health education would look like after the reform since the change really was put on us on teachers,” said Kimberly Wong, HIV educator at ACCM, the organization who started the toolkit after the reform.

“Ideally, sex ed would be taught in the classroom by individuals who specialize in the subject so that students can get accurate and up-to-date information.”

Quebec has one of the highest rates of denominational schools per capita in the country, another factor that comes into play when ensuring each and every student has access to the same comprehensive sexual education, no matter what their school or background.

“It really depends on the staff and administration at each individual school,” said Wong. “There are ways to integrate sex ed in the classroom of these schools and I think the lesson plans in our Ethics and Religious Culture section are great examples of how to do so.”

Those lessons include chapters like first romantic and sexual relationships, myths about sexual violence, and pregnancy options, highlighting things like dispelling common myths associated with sexual practices.

“It’s really difficult to know what direction sex education will take in the future,” she said. “I think what’s most important is providing teachers and schools the tools they need to be able to teach sex ed comfortably in the present.”

Activists warn of rising cases of child sex abuse




Child protection activists have warned that cases of sexual abuse involving children are increasing, and the children are not always the victims but sometimes the perpetrators.

They blamed the lack of sex education at an early age, as well as sex not being discussed openly because many people still considered the subject taboo.

“Meanwhile, children keep being exposed to sexual content from the internet and mobile phones without knowing the right information,” said Ni Nyoman Suparni, the founder of the Women and Children’s Protection Group, a non-government organization based in Karangasem.

In Karangasem, most of the 30 legal cases involving children were sexual offenses, Suparni said.

“Sex abuse involving children keeps rising, and this year it has dominated the cases,” said the women who recently received the MNC Award for her dedication to child protection.

The latest case in Karangasem involved a 16-year-old boy copulating with a hen. Local people reported this case in fear that the perpetrator would do the same to children in the neighborhood.

“The people thought that the boy had a mental disorder, but it is likely that he developed a strange sexual habit because he has often been exposed to sex videos without understanding them,” Suparni said, adding that there were a lot of similar cases in other areas.

The boy, identified as Komang Sup, has undergone psychological examination. He was declared to have a low IQ, but not a mental disorder.

“This boy will undergo further examination by a psychiatrist, and will be given alternative treatment,” said Suparni.

The boy, who did not finish elementary school, is a construction worker.

“He said he had no sexual passion when he was busy working. He admitted that copulating with a hen was an idea that came from his subconscious mind,” said Suparni, who accompanied Komang Sup.

One of the reasons behind sexual abuse is the rapid development of information technology, which allows people in rural areas to have broader access to technological devices without knowing how to use them responsibly.

“Sex education is crucial in these conditions. The people believe what they see, although they understand it in the wrong way.”

She suggested sex education be incorporated in the curriculum for middle school and high school in Bali, including topics about genitals and sexual crime.

I Ketut Sukanatha, director of the Indonesian Family Planning Agency (PKBI) that has been actively campaigning for sex education, said that he found many cases of people with certain sexual fantasies.

“We should not judge them as having a mental disorder. They need to be informed in the right way about the changes in themselves,” he said.

Meanwhile, unwanted pregnancy was the main reason for patients coming to the PKBI clinic in Denpasar.

He regretted the lack of teenage counselors, saying it was an obstacle to addressing the various problems. PKBI tries to reach out to teenagers through the village-based art group Sekaa Teruna.

Activists also called for the implementation of an integrated mechanism to guarantee that children involved in legal problems could be given proper protection and rehabilitation.

Bali has yet to implement this mechanism, despite the rising number of children becoming involved in legal cases, the activists said.

'Prayer and education'

African-American support could help defeat the redefinition of marriage in Maryland Paul Cleveland (center) shares information with a voter in Cheverly, Md., as his wife, Fredi (left), looks on.
Paul Cleveland (center) shares information with a voter in Cheverly, Md., as his wife, Fredi (left), looks on. 

BALTIMORE—Paul and Fredi Cleveland spent hours standing in front of the Hoyer Early Childhood Center in Cheverly, Md., on Tuesday looking for chances to do what they love to do: educate.

“I don’t blame people for wanting hope, but they’re believing lies,” Fredi said, passing out literature against ballot initiatives that would allow casino gaming and same-sex “marriage” in Maryland. She said if people have the facts, they would make the right decision.

As African-American Republicans, the Clevelands quickly acknowledge they’re in a minority, which is why they’re using their position as pastors of a church, Koinonia Congregation, to educate people about issues of biblical significance. “We need to approach voting with prayer and education,” Paul said.

Both sides of the same-sex “marriage” debate have been educating voters on their views since the Maryland General Assembly passed the Civil Marriage Protection Act last March. The Maryland Marriage Alliance responded by rounding up 162,000 signatures—nearly three times the necessary amount—to get a referendum vote on the ballot.
Same-sex “marriage” and legalizing casino gaming are two of seven constitutional amendments that—along with a presidential election and good weather—had Maryland voters coming out in droves Tuesday. Long lines were a common sight, and conversations more often drifted to ballot initiatives than the presidential race (President Obama is expected to carry the state by a double-digit margin).

While I talked with the Clevelands, who are working with the Maryland Marriage Alliance, an informal exit poll in Cheverly (a Washington, D.C., suburb) revealed local voters were breaking in favor of same-sex “marriage” by more than a 2-to-1 margin. The numbers were similar at nearby Spellman Elementary, where a sampling of voters favored the measure known as Question 6 by almost 3-to-1.

But those stats don’t tell the whole story: 88 percent of Cheverly residents are registered Democrats. Traditional marriage is expected to have less support in metropolitan areas such as Baltimore and just outside the nation’s capital, and have considerably more support in the outlying areas of Maryland. A late-October Baltimore Sun poll showed a dead heat after Question 6 had enjoyed a double-digit polling lead as recent as September.

In Linthicum, seven miles south of Baltimore, Bryan Burr waited in line for an hour to cast his ballot against same-sex “marriage.” “If you look at what the end result would be, it will not end well,” he said. “We have enough problems in this country keeping people married.”

Rae Jones, an African-American who has been married for 28 years, also voted against the effort to redefine marriage, saying it offends her when people compare same-sex unions to the civil rights movement. “They’re not being harmed,” she said. “I don’t have anything against [homosexuals], but don’t go changing the definition of marriage that’s in the Bible.”

The Maryland Marriage Alliance has relied heavily on support in the African-American community to buoy its cause. Chairman Derek McCoy has lobbied fellow African-American pastors to preach from the pulpit on the sanctity of traditional marriage—a sermon several voters told me Tuesday had been delivered at their churches.

My informal exit polling showed gambling was picking up significantly less support than same-sex “marriage.” Democratic Maryland Gov. Martin O’Malley, who is pushing all seven state ballot initiatives, has said allowing casino gaming would provide a windfall for the state’s public schools. Jones isn’t buying it: “I’ve got friends in Louisiana and Detroit, where they have casinos, and their schools are in the toilet.”

In Cheverly, advocates on both sides of the gambling issue passed out conflicting literature and battled for voters’ attention. Omar Turner, dressed in a bright blue shirt advertising his cause, said he thinks Maryland residents should be able to keep the money that is currently going to casinos in nearby West Virginia and Atlantic City, N.J. Pat Nelson, wearing a bright red shirt opposing gambling, argued that the politicians are full of empty promises: “Historically, we know it’s not going to bring that much to the education trust fund,” she said. “The numbers don’t add up.”

What's Being Taught?

COLUMBUS, GA -Juno is a movie that follow the challenges facing a pregnant teen, and it is a reality for thousands of teenagers across the country.

27-year-old Lakeia Whatley says she was one of them. At 15-years-old, Whatley found out she was pregnant and gave birth to a little girl when she was 16.

"I pretty much lost everything. I had to get a GED. I had to get a job at 15," said Whatley.

With her daughter entering the 6th grade next year, Whatley plans on being extremely open with her and wants the school system to do the same with sex education.

"Go into detail. Tell them everything from the kiss to everything. Don't leave anything out," said Whatley.

Sex education has been a source of controversy for decades, but it has been shoved into the spotlight in recent months after nationwide media coverage showed for almost two years some New York City schools have been providing birth control and even the so-called morning after pill to some girls as young as 14-years-old whose parents did not an sign opt out form from their pregnancy-prevention program.

"It's very appalling. You know, I can't imagine that my own child would, if given the choice, would do something like that," said Columbus mother, Cheryl Swanier.

Swanier is a mother of four kids and cannot imagine having a policy like the one in New York City Schools in schools here.

"Quite frankly, I don't know how I would respond," said Swanier.

According to a study by the Guttmacher Institute, only 35 states and the District of Columbia have laws mandating school districts must have some form of sex or HIV education.

Georgia is included in that list.

"The state of Georgia adopted an abstinence focused type of curriculum. What that is, we do promote abstinence which is waiting until you are a long-term, faithful, committed relationship when you are older," said Lisa Roberts with the Health and Fitness Instructional Specialist with the Muscogee County School District.

Roberts says in Columbus sex education is part of the health curriculum and begins when students reach middle school.

"We look in all three grades at learning how to believe in yourself and standing up for yourself and getting away from unhealthy relationships," said Roberts.

Using a curriculum called Choosing the Best, Roberts says what is covered in each grade varies a bit. It progresses from only lightly touching on pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases to talking about why teenagers may become sexually active and negative influences like alcohol.

Then, the subjects are more in-depth in high school.

"It is looking at more disease prevention. It's looking at the HIV and aids rate with teenagers," said Roberts.

Roberts explains the district follows the Georgia Performance Standards for both high school and middle school. It is also a state requirement that each district have a sex education advisory committee to approve the curriculum in the schools, and parents can choose to not allow their child to participate.

"If you choose to be sexually active then there is the possibility that sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy could occur. Contraception may help, but they are not a guarantee," said Roberts.

Alabama law also requires schools have sex and HIV education as part of the curriculum in the classroom. Auburn City Schools Superintendent Karen DeLano says they follow state standards and start in 5th grade continuing through 12th grade.

"We want our students to understand the emotional consequences that come with choices when they are thinking about sexual activity," said DeLano.

DeLano says Alabama puts a strong emphasis on abstinence, overall wellness, and also allows parents to have their kids opt out.

"We do want to make sure they understand that these are life choices that can affect them for the remainder of their lives," said DeLano.

"Parents need to be open and honest and don't be afraid to go ahead and breach the subject with their teens," said Pamela Fair with the Columbus Department of Public Health.

Fair says they've seen about 700 teens at their teen clinic, Adolescent Health, since October 2011.
She says even though it can be uncomfortable, parents need to talk with their kids about abstinence or safe sex.

"If they are sexually active many teens do not fully understand how they contract a sexually transmitted disease, how they prevent a sexually transmitted disease and what the symptoms are," said Fair.    
    
Swanier says she agrees with the abstinence focused curriculum that her kids are learning about in Georgia schools.

"Truly, I am more than 200% in agreement with," said Swanier.

 Whatley says because of her experiences as a teen mom, she encourages families to be open.

"Tell your momma, so she can get you some birth control. Tell your daddy, so he can get you some condoms. Protect yourself, and if you are going to do it, let somebody know that you are going to do it," said Whatley.

Officials say in Alabama, schools are not allowed to hand out any form of contraception. In Georgia, however, officials say it is up to each district to decide whether or not to provide contraception to students in Muscogee County, they do not give out contraception.